However, giving a wedding speech isn't as bad as it might seem. Here are a number of hints and tips to help you make a memorable wedding speech. Follow some of the tips and guidelines below and your job should be a breeze.
Making a speech? here are some tips!
When it comes to any form of public speaking, be it a wedding or a conference, the most important thing is to know your audience. Find out in advance what aspects or points you need to cover. Just as importantly, find out if there are any awkward areas or topics that you should avoid and adjust your speech accordingly. Knowing your audience will help you determine what to say and how to say it.
Don't rush your wedding speech. The most important rule of good public speaking is to breathe.
Make sure the microphone is at the right height before your start your speech. Relax, establish eye contact with the audience, take a deep breath, and begin your speech.
As mentioned above, make eye contact with your audience. Your body language will help get your speech across. The best public speakers look natural when talking to a crowd.
Remember not to slouch. Standing up straight will help to project your voice. Try to look at certain individuals when making your speech as opposed to staring into the back wall. If you make eye contact with people, your speech will be a lot more intimate. Smiling will give the impression that you are at ease.
Your speech should be prepared before hand. Make yourself speech cards with large writing and print clearly. You might even want to use a highlighter and make pauses and paragraphs so that you can see these at a glance.
You should try not to use the same words or phrases too often. Also try not to repeat yourself too much.
If there are guests at the wedding you do not know well (and there's bound to be), try not to include crude jokes into your speech as you do not want to offend anybody.
Aim to have your speech run under 5 minutes. If you speak for much longer than this, your audience will probably get bored. As soon as you have written a draft of your speech that is the right duration, look over it every now and then so that you can update it.
There's no need to learn your speech by heart. A better option is to become familiar with the speech so that you will speak naturally when giving it. Have your speech cards handy so that you can glance at it from time to time as a refresher.
Try not to drink too much before it is your time to speak. On the same lines, always go to the toilet in advance to making your speech!
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